This is the time when you really need to think that what do you do wrong? Every one want success and happiness in their lives but you must understands simple things and maybe this is the time when you need to change your attitude to everything and everyone around you.
To become a successful person you must stop doing all those things that prevent you from becoming successfully.
- What “success” is for you?
Success is different for different people. It could be money, happiness, positive change etc. Now the important thing is what “success” is for you. You should not let others to decide what “success” is for you. In the same way don’t let them to impose their meanings of success on you. Just think what success is for you and which makes you happy. It’s not important what other people think but it is important what you think,
- Are you working in right direction?
It does not matter how much hard work is done but it is necessary that the work is done in right direction.
- Do you question about things?
In our daily life we here different information but it’s not compulsory that all the information is true. If you really want to be a successful person then you must try to learn critical thinking and question about it.
- Do you accept the realities?
Future is not predictable so stop worrying about the things which could happen in future. Make you plan but on each step accept the facts and ready to change the deeds, decision and plan. S if you want to be successful then be comfortable with realities.
- How you respond to criticism?
You must be ready about negative comments or personal attacks you may get online from other people and it might be possible that people may not pay any attention towards you. This thing should not make you stressed or depressed. You need to stay calm and focus on your work with full concentration because in this world you cannot make happy everyone.
- Do you want Success quickly?
There is a famous quote “No Pain, No Gain”. In order to get success you need to work hard. You can never be successful by overnight. Do not expect that all those “lose 10 kilos for 3 days” or “get rich in a month” will work for you in the same way never expect success easily and quickly. Just work hard and wait for outcome.
- Do you wait for “Right Time”?
Most of the people have good ideas but they hesitate to implement because they feel this is not the right time. But in reality there will never be the “right time”. You must try to understand this fact and don’t postponed doing things for so called “Right Time”. Just do it now.
- How you respond to problems”
You may face many problems on the way but you must not ignore them. Because if you ignore these problems than it will never disappear but turn into a bigger one. So if you face any problem you must solve it as soon as possible.
- Do you accept responsibility?
Being a human it’s natural to do mistakes. Human error is possible so if you want to become successful then you must always accept responsibilities for your words and actions.
- Do you understand importance of Time Management?
Most people spend their time doing things that are neither urgent nor important. You must understand the importance of Time. Success is a daily habit. It’s the little things you do every day that will get you to your destination. If you have not done anything today to get you closer to your dreams you are not a dreamer, you are a wisher. Wake up and do something about it or watch the dreamers take hold of their dreams, one little step each day.
Courtesy: I wrote this article for Umeedain.com